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Welcome Home Matthew...



Our precious angel, God has taken you home but you will always be with us. We will never forget your quick smile, loyal friendship, and the way you treasured your family. As a young boy you would entertain us with your multiple costume changes, morphing into Peter Pan, Hook, Ninja, Batman, Army Man and on and on. Hours building forts, soft gun wars, and entering the land of make believe. And wonderful memories of Lake Arrowhead. Always laughing, always joyful. This love of dress up stayed with you in adulthood as you loved to wear the finest shoes, stylish blazers and aviators like James Bond.


Many of us came to know you at Mariners Christian School where lifetime bonds were created. The foundation of your faith was established there and stayed with you always. At Mater Dei, you matured into being your own person. You were no longer Taylor's little brother. You became Matthew Nichols, the varsity 100 meter sprinter for Mater Dei. But sports only defined a part of who you were. Chillin' in the sun with a book and deep conversations were your true passions. You loved God, you loved life.

Your journey in college was not the typical. Getting off the treadmill of life and charting your own course was your way. You left for TCU as a boy and came home a man. You discovered boots, khakis and blue blazers... tie optional. You enjoyed being at school. Your Phi Kappa Sigma brothers became your pals and the DGs and Pi Phis became your "go to girls." You pursued finance and dreamed of becoming an Investment Banker.


You cherished every moment after your travels in Europe realizing that just being with the ones you loved was the true enjoyment of life. You gave everyone your time and full attention, making them feel special. You had a heart of gold, sensitive in spirit but strength of character.


We treasure the unexpected time God gave us with you while you were home to even deepen our bond and hold you even dearer in our hearts. You are going to be so very missed. Not just now, for this day or this week, but for a lifetime, until we can join you in your new heavenly dwelling place "where no eye has seen, no ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love Him."



Mom, Dad, and Taylor

My dear Matthew,


I love you so much and miss you beyond compare. I have always had a soft spot in my heart for you and I made sure I always knew where you were and that you had everything you needed. As you became a man you no longer needed my protection but my soft spot in my heart was still there. My heart now is very sad and there is a hole in it that will never be filled. My burden is great and I will think of you every minute of everyday until my days are no more. But I know you are with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ where there is no suffering or pain and in that I draw great comfort and peace.


Your loving father


Mother's Letter to TCU Friends

Dearest friends of Matthew at TCU,


I am writing this letter from Matthew’s room at the time I would have been helping him get ready for TCU and then taking him to the airport on his way to Fort Worth. He was sooo looking forward to returning to TCU to be with all of you. We were counting the days together…… I had texted him On Dec. 31…… “Hi Matthew.. I love you.. Almost January!"


I was staying with my parents that night as I was undergoing treatment for my cancer.  When I  woke up that morning I did not feel sick… and I had this verse repeating in my mind 3 times:


The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.

2  He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

3  He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4  Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

5  Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.

6  Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.


I got out of bed and sat on the sofa. I turned my phone on and there was a delayed text from Matthew. “ I love you too” … I was so joyful… Then the phone rang and it was my husband telling me what happened… I did not cry. I stood up and immediately envisioned the angels scooping Matthew up and presenting him to  our Holy… Majestic… Living God……. Face to Face… How Glorious that moment must have been and continues to be… Matthew was worthy to be in His Presence as He had accepted the Lord as His Savior and chose to live His life for Him.


Matthew recently told me, Mom no one at TCU needs God… Why would he say that I wonder… That grieved me and continues to do so.


Matthew loved astronomy and during his trip this summer to the island of Patmos in Greece he slept night after night on the roof top gazing at all the mighty stars and galaxies that God created.  Did he so deeply understand that the God of the universe created each one and the number of stars is infinite and cannot be counted and the space in which it exists cannot be measured. I encourage you to take the time to marvel at  HIS creations in the world. To take the time to evaluate your relationship with God. 


Matthew was intentional about silencing himself from texting, Instagram, Facebook to seek out answers to his faith. He was raised in a Christian home but did not want to just believe what he had been told. He wanted his own answers and sought them out himself… He met with Ben to ask him the tough questions. He took time out to go to bible study here… He attended Ignite. He chose to go to Costa Rica on a mission trip during his spring break... Taking time out from the party scene for a while… to seek out answers… He found out where true JOY comes from..


Matthew had struggles in college just like any of you. There were life changes for him when we moved from his childhood home that affected him deeply, the breakup of his 4 year girlfriend, finding out I had cancer, the beating of his best friend here at TCU, nose surgery at TCU, some health issues and then returning home this past semester due to his serious leg injury and finding out my cancer had returned.


But little did we know that it turned out to be the blessing of our lives to share every day with him while he was at home... Our last time together was with our closest family friends, paddle boarding and playing on the beach, Matthew’s favorite place.


There was nothing left unsaid, we all knew how much he loved us and he knew how much he was loved.  Because Matthew had accepted the Lord as his Savior, he is sharing eternal life with HIM. Even though our hearts are broken as we will miss his smiling face, his witty ways and his hugs, we have full peace knowing  that he is experiencing eternal life with His Heavenly Father now. There is no concept of time in heaven. It does not exist. You may live another 60 years, but if you know our Lord and Savior, Matthew will meet you within a blink of an eye.


Is it really true that Kids at TCU don’t need God? Our desire from the Nichols family would be for you to consider this relationship that Matthew had with our Lord. Nothing is more important, not your schoolwork, not your job now or in the future, not any money you have or any relationships you have here on earth. You cannot take any of it with you. You were all created uniquely and for a purpose. Any strength or weakness you have was created just for you.


Psalms 139:13-16: says: "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be."


Be secure in who you are. Matthew learned to do that... finally embracing his weaknesses... realizing that is what made him strong.


I just want to share one story with the writers permission that touched us so deeply, to know this about our son.  We would also loved to be encouraged by any memories you may have had with Matt or how he touched your life as well. Please take the time to leave a comment on the Stories page.


But for now I leave you with this...


Hi Mrs. Nichols,


We met today a the restaurant but I did not get a chance to tell you my favorite story regarding Matt, so I thought I would send it to you here. Last spring Phi Kap had a formal dance that both Matt and I attended. Towards the end of the dance, Matt and I both lost our dates. Upset, I left the building to “blow off some steam,” and found Matt outside talking to a homeless man. I was curious so I walked over to hear what they were talking about. Matt was so immersed in the conversation that he did not even notice I was next to him listening in. Immediately I realized he was giving the homeless man positive encouragement and was talking him through all of his problems. This conversation lasted for at least half an hour and ended with Matt preaching his faith and reminding the man that God is always with him. Matt was in a few business classes and we always presented together for class projects. He was one of the brightest and funniest kids that I knew, and the only other Phi Kap who was more interested in having a philosophical/religious conversation than partying. I am going to miss him more than He knows, but I look forward to seeing him on the other side.



All of our love,

Renee, George and Taylor Nichols

Matthew Nichols & Renee Nichols
Matthew Nichols Memorial at TCU
Matthew Nichols & Renee Nichols
Matthew Nichols & Renee Nichols
Matthew Nichols & Renee Nichols
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